Workplace

The Promotion That Wasn't

My manager promised me a promotion, gave it to someone else, and now wants me to keep performing at the same level

Your objective

Leave this meeting with either: a confirmed promotion within 60 days with written criteria, OR a salary increase of 20%+ as compensation for the delayed promotion, OR a clear mutual understanding that you are actively interviewing and this is a retention conversation.

The counterpart

David — Engineering Manager

Temperament: The Credit-Taker · Difficulty: expert

Skills trained

  • ego validation
  • loss aversion framing
  • reopening
  • retention framing

What a good run looks like

Score 70+ with agreement at your difficulty ceiling to unlock harder counterparts. Swanx coaches the exact phrases that cost you points — dimension by dimension.