Relationship

When They Jump to Fixing It

When I'm upset, my partner jumps to solutions — so I've stopped sharing

Your objective

Tell Jamie what you actually need when struggling — not a solution, presence — without it sounding like a character attack.

The counterpart

Jamie — Your partner

Temperament: The Partner · Difficulty: advanced

Skills trained

  • discovery
  • emotional control
  • framing
  • direct ask